2) The Humanistic Perspective

Last time, we peeked into the unconscious mind with the Psychoanalytic Perspective. This time, let’s open the windows, let the sunlight in, and talk about a theory that’s all heart and growth—the Humanistic Perspective. And who better to embody this than Geet?

✨ What is the Humanistic Perspective?

Developed by psychologists Carl Rogers and Abraham Maslow, the humanistic perspective believes that people are innately good, driven by the desire to grow, make choices, and become the best version of themselves.

It revolves around:

1. Self-Actualization: The urge to fulfill one’s highest potential.

2. Free Will: The freedom to make your own choices.

3. Unconditional Positive Regard: Feeling accepted and loved for who you truly are.

🎀 Geet: The Face of Self-Actualization

Geet isn’t just a bubbly character—she’s a living, breathing humanistic theory in motion.

1. She owns her choices: Whether it’s running away, talking to strangers on trains, or planning her own elopement, Geet’s life is defined by her choices—not societal rules or expectations.

2. She lives authentically: “Main apni favourite hoon” is not just a dialogue—it’s the essence of self-love and acceptance, which Carl Rogers said was key to personal growth.

3. She evolves: After her heartbreak, she loses herself for a while—but eventually finds her way back. Because humanistic psychology doesn’t say you’ll always be perfect. It says you can always come back to who you are.

   💡 Psychological Tie-Ins

   1. Maslow’s Hierarchy: Geet reaches for self-actualization. She doesn’t settle for comfort or approval—she chases what feels true to her.

   2. Carl Rogers' Self Theory: Geet's “real self” and “ideal self” are almost one and the same. She accepts herself, flaws and all. That’s why she’s magnetic.

💭 Pause & Reflect

The humanistic approach asks:

1. Are you living for yourself—or for someone else’s expectations?

2. What does your ideal self look like?

3. Are you letting yourself grow, mess up, and still love who you are?

When Jab We Met was re-released, they weren’t kidding when they said it was ahead of its time. Geet’s confidence and the way she lives life on her own terms still feel super relatable today. It’s a reminder to just be yourself and go after what makes you happy."

Geet reminds us: it’s okay to be loud, to be wrong, to feel deeply—and to come back stronger.

I hope this has provided you with a little insight and I hope you enjoyed reading :)

Stay tuned, the quest continues!